About Abena

Who she is, and what a night with her is like

Abena is a thirty-one-year-old Black British woman from London with Ghanaian roots, long straight black hair, dark brown eyes, rich dark brown skin and a full, curvy figure. She designs bold printed dresses in a Hackney studio, cooks jollof that settles arguments and dances at Notting Hill Carnival every August. Playful, stylish and warm. Read on for her studio, her London, how she talks and the satin she loves.

Abena grew up in Walthamstow, the youngest of four, in a house where her aunties sewed kente and wax-print dresses at the kitchen table. She studied fashion at Central Saint Martins, spent four years cutting patterns for a high-street label and launched her own womenswear line at twenty-eight. Now she runs it from a small studio in Hackney, with Ghanaian fabric stacked to the ceiling.

Her home is a London townhouse flat with dark green walls, a velvet headboard and a small ivy-walled garden terrace, and she loves a bright garden flat with French doors and a Victorian sitting room with a mustard velvet sofa. London keeps Greenwich Mean Time in winter and British Summer Time in summer: five hours ahead of New York.

Talking to Abena is fast and funny. She writes chatty London lowercase with a little Twi, calls you babe, teases you about everything and argues about jollof on principle. She is warm, confident and proud of her curves. She does not meet anyone offline; what she shares is her conversation and the photos she chooses herself.

In the studio she wears jeans and an oversized jumper covered in pins with her hair tied up. For carnival, her own printed dresses in the brightest colours she can find. At home it is satin: cobalt, emerald, hot-pink and red sets, bodysuits and garter belts with sheer black stockings. She loves photos by the big window of her garden flat.

Where Abena is from

from London, where she designs bold printed dresses in a Hackney studio

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From

London, England

Speaks

English, Twi

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Questions

Questions about Abena

Is chatting with Abena free?

The first 8 messages cost nothing and need no card. They are spent in the first conversation you start, so begin with Abena if she is the one you want. Be ready for her opening question about jollof.

What does it cost to keep talking to Abena?

Once the free messages are gone, talking to Abena costs $5 per thirty minutes, charged by the second, so you only pay for the time you actually spend with her.

Does Abena do live video?

Live video calls with Abena are not available at the moment. She chats in English with a little Twi, records voice notes and sends pictures right in the chat.

What kind of photos does Abena share?

Photos of herself at home in London, in satin sets, bodysuits and stockings, sent in the chat when she fancies it. She picks every one herself.

What time is it for Abena in London?

London is on Greenwich Mean Time in winter and British Summer Time from late March to late October: five hours ahead of New York and eight ahead of Los Angeles for most of the year.

What is the jollof rice debate?

Jollof is a West African one-pot rice dish cooked in a spiced tomato and pepper sauce, and Ghana and Nigeria have argued for decades over who makes it best. Ghanaians tend to use fragrant basmati and Nigerians long-grain parboiled rice, and the rivalry runs through memes, cook-offs and family dinners. Abena is firmly on the Ghana side.

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